Got a great lesson from the boss this week on management, and it's especially potent for people who are in programming, and who are also talent.
When you ask someone to do something, there should be no question. So don't ask them in a way where you leave it open for discussion.
For example, don't ask "hey could you please do such and such for me?"
Instead, say "need you to do such and such."
Don't ask the question when there's no question about it. And, if you get pushback for whatever reason, don't be afraid to remind them that it's not a request, it's an order from a member of the management team.
Sometimes, in trying to "be liked" it's easy to get soft.
Was a good lesson. Looking forward to putting it into practice.