If we're similar, as you were once told, this will make sense:
to gellar: don't make mistakes... so someday someone can come along and say... you motivated me... and always remember that where you've been is motivation for where you're going. the nexgen is in your hands now. if we're "similar" as was said, then you'll know what to do. Do it. The rest will take care of itself.
And don't be afraid to break dishes.